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We represent you a fragment from the book " Love Letters... From Russia " Written by Weston Rogers, where you can receive some good advice for yours correspondence by e-mail with Slavic women.

"…If an introduction letter is good for establishing initial interest of meeting, should prolonged correspondence be even better? From my perspective, the answer has changed from Yes to No. For both my 1992 trip to Moscow and 1998 trip to Kiev, I believed prolonged correspondence was the best process. But armed with this experience, I have subsequently changed my mind. I still believe letters are the best method to establish initial interest, but letters cannot reveal the physical compatibility between a man and women. Two people may be a perfect match on paper, but the physical desire, chemistry, passion, or whatever you want to call it may be absent. Having meet hundred's of Russian and Ukrainian women for the purpose of marriage, I feel it only takes a couple hours to determine initial physical compatibility. Think about it, how many times have you been on a first date with an American woman and within minutes knew there was no physical attraction. Different nationalities and language do not prevent the same type of initial physical impression. To be blunt, within minutes a physical meeting may wash away years of interest nurtured via correspondence.
Therefore, my recommendation of letters for the purpose of marriage is simply this. When you travel to Russia or Ukraine, try to meet as many women as possible who have responded to your initial letter of introduction. Try to meet 2 to 4 women each day, in one to two-hour casual meetings. Then in the evening have dinner with the woman you are most interested in.
This recommendation also works well from the woman's perspective. Beautiful Russian women have become barraged with letters for the purpose of marriage. If a woman receives 50 plus letters, she simply does not have the time to maintain prolonged correspondence - especially hand writing every letter. If the woman does not speak English, it may take her days to write one letter - translating with a dictionary. Additionally, Russian women are becoming jaded to maintaining prolonged correspondence with men that never come to personally meet them.
To make this recommendation a reality, you must be concerned about logistics. I recommend you travel to the hometown (or close to it) of the women you want to meet. The alternative is for you to establish a central location in Russia and have the women travel to meet you. This would be an expensive alternative, with you paying for the women's transportation costs. Also, it would be an insult for the woman to travel hundreds of miles only to spend one to two-hours with you. The next logistical component you must consider is where the women live. Before you buy a single woman's address or write a letter, think about geography. Look at a map of Russian and think about logistics of travel. Do you want to visit one city or a group of cites? How will you travel, by air, train, and car? The process may seem backwards, but you need to decide your travel plans and then start correspondence with women located in the cities you will visit. The How-To topic "Travel arrangements to Russia" will help you with your travel plans.

Sincerity of Letters

When I first started correspondence with Russian women, I was extremely skeptical that letters would be an effective medium for meeting my future wife. I had never corresponded with a woman for the purpose of marriage or knew anyone who had engaged in such correspondence. However, after receiving dozens of first and second response letters from the Russian women I corresponded with, I was amazed with the sincerity of their letters. The women were candid and open about their feelings regarding themselves and the type of man they wanted to marry. Even Natasha expressed surprise with the feelings associated with letters in her second response letter to me. "It is funny, but I never felt liking to a person by exchanging letters only. All your thoughts, wishes, aspirations are very close to mine." Responding to their letters, I found myself expressing emotions even my closest of friends didn't know about me. Typically people find it difficult to look someone directly in the eyes and express their true feelings. However, letters provide a wonderful medium for transcending personal reservations, allowing you to focus on your marriage ideals…"

We wish you good luck in achievement of your purpose - " To have fond, careful and most beautiful Slavic wife! "